Why child throws tantrums and what needs to be done?
Ever wondered why the kids do not want to listen and behave weirdly. Does this happen with your own kid or with other kids as well?
Need not to worry. This happens with all kids at certain point of time. Like we have mood swings similarly child has mood swings too. Many times he is not interested to work at that point.If the child is not ready to work and throws tantrum do not loose patience .Put in extra effort to create environment .Many a times the children showcase such behaviour it is quite natural.
Just wait for the right moment and try to make environment in which he can work. If a child is not ready to work and is not ready to do do his work. Don’t loose cool, shout or hit .Never criticize or curse him.Your negative remarks are more dangerous than physical punishment. Always maintain friendly relations with your child and you can make him understand well.
How to shape him for future ?
You need to chisel the personality of your child as a potter. As the potter shapes the pot deftly putting soft hand inside and outside and keep giving shape to it .He cannot afford to apply hard hand .In the same way you need to handle them gently .Never be harsh or aggressive.
If you carelessly deal with your child and be harsh towards him and force him. You will face lot many problems in future and then there will be no looking back. Never comment on his weaknesses but glorify his strength. Also try to ignore if he does something wrong but appreciate if something good is done. If you keep focusing on his strength this will become the part of life and negative things will disappear . He will start believing in himself which will make him a better person.